Elke Ahrlich Schulze Obituary (1940 - 2026)

Elke Ahrlich Schulze, 86, of New Bern, NC, passed away on June 21, 2026, surrounded by her loving family. Born on April 8, 1940, in Hamburg, Germany, to parents Henry and Kathe Ahrlich, she moved to America where she became a naturalized citizen in 1957 along with her brother, Dieter, and parents. While living in New York, Elke met her husband, Werner Johannes Schulze, at a social club for members of German descent. He was the love of her life; they called each other "schatzi," German for "sweetheart" or "treasure." Elke and Werner married on March 1, 1958, and had three children, Carol, Jeff, and Chris. They lived for many years on Spring Valley Road, Park Ridge, NJ. Working in the caregiving field, Elke provided care to residents of the local nursing home, elementary school, and individuals in the community. The Schulzes were known for their hospitality, hosting many family celebrations and holidays. Unexpectedly, Werner died on September 11, 1987. Starting a new chapter in her life, Elke moved to New Bern, NC, in 2000. She lived on the Neuse River for years before settling on Jordan Drive. She welcomed all her family from "up north," hosting and showing off her new hometown. In 2008, Elke moved her mother from New Jersey to New Bern, where they lived together until Kathe's death in 2014. Elke was diagnosed with Alzheimer's in 2018. She bravely fought with the help of her family and many caretakers. Thanks to all who visited, called, sent cards and notes, and supported Elke. Special thanks go out to Elke's longtime aide, Debbie, and the staff of Craven County Hospice. She is survived by children Carol (Sztyndor) and husband Rich of Port Jervis, NY; Jeff and wife Aimee of New Bern; and Chris of the home. She was preceded in death by her parents, Heinrich and Kathe E. Ahrlich; husband, Werner; and brother, Dieter. She has four grandchildren, four great-grandchildren, multiple nieces and nephews, and relatives in Germany. A memorial service will be held at a later date and at the convenience of the family. Those wishing to honor Elke’s memory may make a donation to a charity of their choice or to an organization meaningful to them in her remembrance. Bennett Funeral & Cremation Care is honored to serve the family and friends of Elke Ahrlich Schulze.